Monday, October 3, 2011

Abortion

Anyone contemplating an abortion should consider some important facts.
Many women experience one or more of the following consequences, some of which may take several years to surface.
Physical:
Serious complications do occur in as many as 1 out of every 100 early abortions and 1 out of 50 later abortions.
Perforated uterus or damage to other organs
Excessive bleeding, requiring blood transfusions
Chronic and acute infections
Intense pain
Incomplete removal of the baby or placenta
High fever
Convulsions
Shock
Coma
A greater increase in miscarriages, and ectopic (tubal) pregnancies
Premature births
Still births
Infertility
Breast cancer
Death
Emotional:
Women experience strong negative emotions after an abortion.
This is known as "Post Abortion Syndrome"

Guilt
Anger
Anxiety
Feeling of Helplessness
Isolation
Mental Breakdown
Depression
Suicidal Thoughts
Denial
Alcohol and Drug Abuse
Sexual Dysfunction
Preocupation with becoming pregnant again or a fear of future pregnancies
Nightmares and Flashbacks
Distrust and feelings of betrayal
Frequent or uncontrollable crying

There is help! Non-judgmental and caring people are a phone call away!

Sunday, March 20, 2011

Wednesday, March 9, 2011

One Day For Life Title Sponsors

WDJC 93.7 and Cabrito Farms have signed up to be title sponsors for our One Day For Life event! Jenny will be on the air with the CullmanFBC channel 27 on Friday morning to discuss the event. She will also be on WDJC on Monday, March 28 from 7am-9am!

We may not be able to make a difference to the world but we can make a difference in the life of one person's world! By participating in our One Day For Life Walk, you have the power to continue the progress at Her Choice North Alabama Women’s Center. Please be praying for the event and how you would like to serve this ministry. By participating, you have the power to involve so many more members of our community!

Thursday, February 24, 2011

Join us at "One Day For Life", so we can continue to serve our community

Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, and before you were born I consecrated you.” Jeremiah 1:5

We are a non-denominational, faith based, non-profit 501(c3) pregnancy center and certified physiological Lab (clinic) .      Many of you may wonder why the name “Her Choice” was chosen. We like to refer to it as Her Choice “For Life” and hope that anyone who walks through our doors would choose life.  In an effort to reach as many women as possible we are now on Facebook, Twitter, Blogger, and have a web page. We want these women to know that we are here to be their advocate through their pregnancy. We present all the facts about the options these young women have, in the hope they will choose to parent their baby or place the child in a loving adoptive home.

We offer free pregnancy tests and counseling to those who think they are in an unplanned pregnancy.  Surprisingly, 50 percent have negative tests.  With the negative tests we talk to these women about sexual integrity and transmitted diseases.  In other words    the consequences of their actions.  We use as a guide the “Princess Rules”  that is: (saving themselves for their one true prince as our creator God planned)     Reminding them that God created them for a special purpose and they need to seek His will in their lives. We take every opportunity to share the love of Our Lord with them. 

When the pregnancy test is positive, we give her a 12 week fetal model showing the stages of growth of her baby   and a hand knitted baby cap.  This is not a “formless mass of cells”.  Life begins at conception. She is a mother...

Our limited ultrasound program, which shows the baby and the heartbeat, has caused women who did not want to carry their baby to term, to change their minds. These women come to us scared,   terrified even, to think about the possibility of being pregnant.  How will she tell her parents, her grandparents, her friends and what will they think?  We at Her Choice, hope she will turn to us for help and guidance.  By giving her all the facts about her options, so that she able to make an informed decision.

 Our parenting program offers the client the opportunity to meet with us monthly to watch films on Baby Care and Parenting and facts about adoption.  She receives information on nutrition, finances, stages of the baby’s growth, changes in her body, safety and precautions   for her and her baby, keeping the baby’s father involved if possible and a Bible Study and assignments to be completed at home.  We discuss God’s roll in her and her baby’s life.  She receives a little gift for her baby at each visit and when she completes the program she receives a crib or car seat.  These meetings offer her an opportunity to discuss her feelings and experiences freely in a confidential setting.  Everything discussed is held in the strictest confidence.  Her homework is gathered into a booklet and returned to her when she delivers her baby.
The Fathers-To-Be are also offered a “fathers mentoring program” with an experienced father.  Many times these young men have not had a role model in their lives and need guidance on how to be a father to their own baby.  They also need to be instructed on what changes the mother is experiencing and the changes after the baby arrives. He is also offered the opportunity to discuss his feelings about the baby.  This program is offered simultaneously with the Mom’s program.

Oftentimes when we discuss the option of placing their baby for adoption the birth mother rejects the idea.  She thinks this would be like abandoning her baby.  Today,  in most cases of single parenting, adoption is a most heroic act of love on the part of the birth mother.  Statistics show that children of a single mother are very likely to not finish school,   become sexually active at a young age,   and get in trouble with the law.  Prison populations are very high in single parented inmates.   There are thousands of couples wanting to adopt a baby and love him as their very own.  Offering this baby a mother and father and a stable home life is a healthy option.  The birth mother selects the family where she can place her baby.  She can even interview them and arrange to receive updates and pictures as the baby grows.  This is a difficult decision for the birth mother but many have willingly made this loving sacrifice so that their baby would have 2 fulltime loving parents.

We offer a service called “In God’s Care” for those who have suffered a miscarriage. The sole mission of this program is to bring solace to the family. We provide information and services to meet the emotional and spiritual needs of the family. After the guidelines of the program are met we can help by offering assistance with the arrangements or the burial service. It is our desire to ease the sense of profound sadness for the loss of the baby and provide a sense of closure for the parent.

Another program we offer is similar to “In God’s Care” where we minister to women who had an abortion.  A post-Abortion Bible Study is also available that Ministers to those suffering from this experience.

At Her Choice we are blessed to have a chapel that was donated by several Christian ministries. This chapel provides a quiet place for prayer for our new clients and their families along with the counselors and staff. 

Her Choice offers hope and encouragement to those young women who are scared and unsure of their future.  We don’t just encourage these women to carry their baby to term.  We lovingly walk with her through her pregnancy being her advocate.

We serve willingly in God’s Ministry and invite you to join us as we share the love of the Lord with these people in need. If you are feeling called to help the center by serving on our Board of Directors or in a volunteer capacity, I encourage you to pray about it and contact the center.


Friday, February 18, 2011

Abortion Documentary

Scared? Don't terminate your pregnancy, place your baby in an adoptive home or be a parent...

At our center, we want these women to choose life, so they will never have to look back in despair and wish they never had an abortion. Please watch this short video.




If you have experienced an abortion, you are not alone. Many women feel the pain of abortion too, and have all kinds of other feelings associated with it.

If you are in Cullman or the surrounding area, please call 256-352-LOVE. We can help.

http://rachelsvineyard.org/

Tuesday, January 25, 2011

The Princess Rules

  1. A PRINCESS IS MADE FOR HER ONE TRUE PRINCE
    • Our physical bodies are meant for our "Prince"; the one person worthy of our love who will commit to us for a lifetime. We should not reveal too much of our bodies so that what we reveal is our true beauty
  2. A PRINCESS' HEART DESERVES TO BE PROTECTED
    • We are meant for true emotional bonding with our prince, the man who truly loves us unconditionally and commits to us for life. We need to protect ourselves emotionally from those who use us instead
  3. A PRINCESS IS MADE TO LOVE OTHER PEOPLE
    • We need to build relationships with our family, with females and males that are healthy and life giving. We need to end relationships that are bad for us
  4. A PRINCESS FILLS HER MIND WITH GOOD THINGS
    • We can become interesting and engaging, as women; not "sex objects". We have the God given ability to become mature and wise so the prince will be attracted to our minds as well as our beauty
  5. A PRINCESS KNOWS HER FATHER, THE KING
    • We are precious in God's eyes, regardless of our choices in the past. God has made us for relationships with others and with him, but it is up to us to respond to him

Thursday, January 20, 2011

Rotary Club

I was so excited to speak at the Rotary Club meeting today. We had a great luncheon at All-Steak restaurant. Actually, I think I was more excited about sharing our wonderful work at Her Choice Women's center with all the Rotary members. Most of the members had not heard of our organization. So, many of you who were not able to make it, probably want to know what was said, etc... We had lots of questions about what we do, so if you have a question about anything, please leave a comment.

“Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, and before you were born I consecrated you.” Jeremiah 1:5
Her Choice is a christian, faith based, and non-profit 501(c3) pregnancy center and certified physiological Lab (clinic) .    Many of you may wonder why the name “Her Choice” was chosen. We like to refer to it as Her Choice “For Life” and hope that anyone who walks through our doors would choose life.   We want these women to know that we are here to be their advocate through their pregnancy. We present all the facts about the options these young women have, in the hope they will choose to parent their baby or place the child in a loving adoptive home.
I talked about all our free services, such as:  pregnancy tests; our limited ultrasound program, which shows the baby and the heartbeat, has caused women who did not want to carry their baby to term, to change their minds; Our parenting program offers the client the opportunity to meet with us monthly to watch films on Baby Care and Parenting and facts about adoption;  The Fathers-To-Be are also offered a “fathers mentoring program” with an experienced father;  The benefits of adoption; the "In God's Care" program for those who have suffered a miscarriage and need closure; Another program similar to “In God’s Care” except this program provides closure to any woman who had an abortion;  We also have a chapel that was donated by several Christian ministries in the Cullman area.
If you are feeling called to help the center by serving on our Board of Directors or in a volunteer capacity, I encourage you to pray about it and contact the center.
We had great response and many questions about our organization. I am very proud of the wonderful volunteers that help make all these programs possible.

God bless!

Wednesday, January 12, 2011

Volunteer Meeting

We know that one person can make a difference. By participating in our One Day For Life Walk, you have the power to continue the progress at Her Choice North Alabama Women’s Center. Please be thinking of a committee that you feel called to serve on. By participating as a volunteer you have the power to involve so many more members of our community! Thank you for taking this challenge head on.

We will have our volunteer meeting at the center, Wednesday, January 26 @ 6pm

Friday, January 7, 2011

SAVE THE DATE: April 2

Please save the date for Saturday, April 2. We will have our 1st "One Day for Life" Walkathon at Heritage Park in Cullman, Alabama. All proceeds for this event will benefit Her Choice North Alabama Women's Center in Hanceville. For more information about our center, please visit our website http://www.herchoicenorthal.org/

We need volunteers! If you are interested please e-mail the center at herchoicenal@yahoo.com. We will give you a volunteer packet, this packet will contain a form that will need to be filled out if you are interested in volunteering. Also, we will have opportunities to sign up on committees at out Volunteer meetings.

"For I was hungry and you gave me food, I was thirsty and you gave me drink, I was a stranger and you welcomed me..." Matthew 25:35

Tuesday, January 4, 2011

Being Thankful

I promised I would blog about the center everyday. However, the only thing I can think of today is how thankful I am for my family. I have a very humble heart and by no means have an excess of anything. Sometimes we forget that we are indeed fortunate. First, we were born in the United States and not ________ (insert a different country here). Secondly, most of us have our basic needs met. Maslow's hierarchy of needs is a theory in psychology, proposed by Abraham Maslow in his 1943 paper A Theory of Human Motivation. He addresses 5 basic needs that must be met to achieve self-actualization. The fundamental need for survival is clothing, shelter and a SAFE environment. However, dear friends, there are many people who do not have access to these basic needs. I am hoping we can change this at the center. Maybe through God's love we can instill hope into these poor souls who do not have these necessities, and help them find a place of belonging. I hope through parenting classes we can reach a few of these people. I've heard it said; "Give a man a fish; you have fed him for today.  Teach a man to fish; and you have fed him for a lifetime”

I've attached a prayer below that I hope you will say with me:


Almighty God, our Father,
you who have given us life
and intended us to have it forever,
grant us your blessings.
Enlighten our minds to an awareness
and to a renewed conviction
that all human life is sacred
because it is created
in your image and likeness.
Help us to teach by word
and the example of our lives
that life occupies the first place,
that human life is precious
because it is the gift of God
whose love is infinite.
Give us the strength to defend human life
against every influence
or action that threatens or weakens it,
as well as the strength
to make every life more human
in all its aspects.

Give us the grace...
When the sacredness of life
before birth is attacked,
to stand up and proclaim
that no one ever has the authority
to destroy unborn life.

When a child is described as a burden
or is looked upon only as a means
to satisfy an emotional need,
to stand up
and insist that every child is a unique
and unrepeatable gift of God,
a gift of God
with a right to a loving
and united family.

When the institution of marriage
is abandoned to human selfishness
or reduced to a temporary conditional arrangement
that can easily be terminated,
to stand up and affirm
the indissolubility of the marriage bond.

When the value of the family is threatened
because of social and economic pressure,
to stand up and reaffirm
that the family is necessary
not only for the private good of every person,
but also for the common good of every society,
nation and state.

When freedom is used to dominate the weak,
to squander natural resources and energy,
to deny basic necessities to people,
to stand up and affirm
the demands of justice and social love.

Almighty Father,
give us courage to proclaim the supreme dignity
of all human life and to demand
that society itself give its protection.
We ask this in your name,
through the redemptive act
of your Son and in the Holy Spirit.

Amen.

Monday, January 3, 2011

Get Involved

Get Involved!  Do you have a heart for Life?  Are you wondering how you or your church might make a contribution that will make a difference? Here are some ideas:
Pray for the Her Choice!
Please pray for the Lord's protection, provision and wisdom for the Her Choice, its staff and volunteers.  Also pray for our clients; that they would be blessed with courage and the Lord's peace as they receive information and make important decisions.
Donate Items for Mother and Baby
 We gladly accept new and gently used items including: clothing for mother and baby, baby furniture, car seats, strollers and other items. Please contact the center to arrange for a drop-off of donation items.
Host a Baby Shower for Her Choice  
 Would your church like to host a baby shower on behalf of the center? It's a wonderful way to stock our shelves with wonderful blessings that can help women to make a choice for Life.
Become a Church/Group Contact Person
If you have a heart for Life and would like to help your church or group get involved in Life Ministries becoming a Church/Group Contact is a wonderful place to start!  Her Choice would contact you about upcoming events, new classes and services for you to make available to your church/group.
Financial Support 
It would be wonderful if your family or church could add Her Choice to their monthly giving or missions giving/budget.  Her Choice is a non-profit Christian organization and does not generate any income from its services.  It is only because of our regular local support that we can keep our doors open and the assistance provided available.
On-line giving has never been more secure or easier!  Click on the link below for fast, secure, easy donations, saving time and postage while blessing Her Choice!

http://www.herchoicenorthal.org/donations.html

Sunday, January 2, 2011

New Position

I was brought up in a household where church was respected, but not attended. It was not until I was 14 that I began my journey with Christ, and God began a complete renovation of my life and beliefs. Of course through the years and through many trials my life changed. However, he has always brought me back to his path. More recently, he brought me to the Catholic Church. Easily one of the most important was my perspective about the value and sanctity of human life. Before He rearranged my brain, I held the beliefs that abortion was wrong, but really didn't feel compelled to talk about it. I was a fence warmer. But when I began my walk with Christ, my opinion regarding abortion and life was one of the first to be forever changed. He showed me that not only is my life important and valued enough for Him to die on the cross, but that every life is precious in His sight.

There’s nothing more worthwhile than to help pregnant mothers make a good choice—a choice for life. It is with great humility that I accept the position of Executive Director at Her Choice North Alabama Center for Women. Please pray for me and all those involved with the center.

Our Mission:

Her Choice North Alabama Women's Center seeks to provide competent and caring service to as many women in the north Alabama area as possible who may have unplanned pregnancies.

To help meet the physical and emotional needs of the Client.

Trained pregnancy advocates will provide information and individualized support through one-to-one relationships, referrals and ongoing direct services.

I've created this blog so you can follow the daily "goingons" at the center. I hope this will give a new perspective to those who wish to be more involved in the center.  
May God Bless You!